Still Waiting

Monday, February 25, 2008

FUCK.

i get so upset and angry EVERYTIME, EVERY SINGLE FREAKING TIME when GUYS say this:

"if i can't make her happy, i'll let her go."

RIDICULOUS.

ABSOLUTE NONSENSE.

THESE ARE THE EXACT THINGS GUYS WILL SAY WHEN THEIR RELATIONSHIP IS ON THE ROCKS.

OR RATHER, THEY ARE COWARDS. they only know how to escape, how to prevent their heart from breaking, how to regret rather than PUT UP A REAL FIGHT.

after this failed relationship, they get all upset and lament at the fact that they are unloved and their partners sucked though he loved them. they will then live on with this piece of regret and will avoid the partner at all costs. finally, they become men with no confidence and they become needy and desperate.

u guys hate needy and desperate women right?

Now let me tell you. WE HATE NEEDY AND DESPERATE MEN LIKE YOU TOO.

i mean seriously! its not tt i look down on u guys TOTALLY. ok hey, that sentence is not true. fact is, i look down on such guys. needy, desperate OR/PLUS claims he loves the girl a lot YET let her go w/o putting up a real fight.

which means they're NOT real men.

this is SO ironic. how can the sissified men let those woman they CLAIM to love so much to leave? unless of cos, the woman insist to call the police if he shld harrass her again, or hates him to the core. then the man can let go. but what about a relationship on the verge?

"to leave, or not to leave?"

at this point when girls think abt such question, then the man shld be putting in more effort, commitment and time, to salvage this breaking relationship. if not, just watch a heart broken girl leave. then, watch her fall in love with SOMEONE ELSE. than watch her get married.

then, drink yourself silly and regret so painfully that you didnt work harder to keep her by your side. next, ask her out and cry in her arms that u still FUCKING love her.

then she'll say: sorry, im married to a man that can make me happy and work hard enough to keep me by his side. besides, you let me go. i have no obligations or whatsoever to listen to your crap right now. LET GO, i have to dine with him now. *the girl storms away after kicking the man's ass.*

and the man sobs alone there, drinks himself silly till he is 50 years and still have not woke up to his senses yet.

OR BI GOOD.

he deserves it what. for not fighting for the girl.

IF, just in case the guys are thinking, that the girl will HOPEFULLY run back to them like dogs, i'm so sorry. it just wouldn't happen like that. if you happen to have a girl running back to you even if you told her to leave, then i still WOULD NOT congratulate you. bcos this kind of girl appears to be under the needy and desperate list, and they are, as men says, those that men avoid at all costs.

then when the girl goes back to those sissified men, the men will play her around like a toy, back to those old days of not cherishing her and not willing to commit or put in effort.

a REAL man, is a man who will say this:

girl: why don't you let me go?
boy: because i know i've set my eyes on you and only you, so if i don't fight back, i know i will lose you forever...
girl: *breaks down and cry on his shoulder, and promises never to leave him*

so if a man just let the woman they love to go, chances are they don't love you as much as you do. if i really love this man, i will NEVER give him up. cos i know he is the only unique one out there and i can never find another man like him. however, if i don't really love this man and i can do w/o him, i will say the quote, and pretend that im being very generous and gracious and get all heartbroken, but yet it will not feel like a loss. so girls, if any guys say that they will let you go if you find another love, it's either they are hoping u will go back to them(w/o them making any sincere effort)or they just don't love you. PERIOD.

so girls, we can jolly well do without these guys. WAKE UP TO YOUR SENSES.

p/s: i am so glad gabriel is a brave man... not like someone else. (one of my close gf's bf.)

-when are you coming back? ;